Church Disrupted 031: Uncovering Spiritual Abuse In Church AND At Home
Apr 9, 2024
Joyce Hindle, a former pastor's wife turned life coach, shares her harrowing journey through spiritual abuse at home and in ministry. She discusses recognizing the subtle signs of abuse, the profound impact it has on one's life, and the importance of community support. Joyce emphasizes the need for accountability in church leadership and highlights the need for transparent structures to protect victims. Through her insights, she encourages healing, empowerment, and the essential balance between personal trauma and spiritual calling.
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Early Signs of Narcissistic Abuse
- Joyce Hindle experienced escalating control and narcissistic behavior starting from dating, which mirrored her upbringing with a controlling father.
- Early signs included love bombing, testing boundaries, blame shifting, and gaslighting disguised as jokes.
Family First in Ministry
- Pastors must prioritize family ministry first and engage in daily humble service including small tasks at home.
- Neglecting family responsibilities for ministry is a sin and erodes the heart of true ministry.
Grief Comes in Waves
- Grief over abuse arrives in waves, initially overwhelming but diminishing in intensity with time and healing.
- Embracing the grief rather than fighting it allows for healthier processing and eventual relief.