

My Wife and I Live Like Roommates
7 snips Sep 8, 2025
Listen in as a man grapples with a stagnating, sexless marriage, seeking ways to reconnect with his wife amidst distractions. A woman shares her concerns about supporting her sister's unconventional lifestyle choices, navigating the emotional complexities that arise. Meanwhile, another listener navigates the painful experience of secondhand grief, reflecting on collective sorrow and the importance of community support. The discussion also touches on the challenges of public shaming and underscores the value of kindness in a digital age.
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Start The Scariest Conversation
- Use an I-statement to start the hardest conversation about feeling unloved and ask to stay present.
- Ask, “How can I become your friend again?” to invite specific feedback and repair.
Sexless Marriage Can Signal Lost Friendship
- Sexual disinterest often signals deeper relational distance, not only physical issues.
- Reframing from regaining the past to shaping the next decade helps reduce perceived loss.
Ask What Needs To Change
- Ask, “What would need to change in me that would make you like me?” to surface specific issues without blame.
- Use forward-looking language about who you want to be for the next 10–15 years.