Pillow Talks Episode 6: This Is Why Your partner Won't Work On Your Relationship With You - And How To Finally Get Them To!
Jul 1, 2021
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Early Relationship Struggles
- Vanessa Marin recalls Xander Marin's initial resistance to therapy early in their relationship.
- They struggled with Xander's overworking, drifting apart, and feeling like roommates.
Relationship Work Dynamics
- It's unlikely both partners want to work on the same things simultaneously in a relationship.
- Often, one partner initiates or leads the effort, which can be scary for the other.
Reframing Relationship Work
- Many view relationship work as solely for problem-solving, especially during crises.
- Relationships need continuous effort, not just intervention during tough times.