The Stoic Handbook by Jon Brooks Was Socrates in a Toxic Relationship with his Wife?
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Feb 24, 2025 
In this intriguing discussion, ancient Greek philosopher Socrates sheds light on his marriage to the infamous Xanthippe, exploring whether she was truly abusive or simply a victim of her era's societal norms. Delve into their complex relationship as Socrates and philosopher Donald Robertson examine love, societal expectations, and the ways personal struggles can shape philosophical beliefs. This dialogue invites listeners to reflect on historical narratives and the emotional intricacies of marital life in ancient Athens.
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Xanthippe's Behavior
- Socrates' wife, Xanthippe, is often portrayed as hot-tempered, but cultural context matters.
- Ancient Mediterranean cultures expressed emotions more physically, so her actions might not indicate a personality disorder.
Socrates on Xanthippe
- Socrates valued Xanthippe as a good wife and mother, despite her temper.
- He didn't express love for her openly, which wasn't common for men in classical Athens.
Training Horses Analogy
- Socrates compared managing Xanthippe to training difficult horses, suggesting he saw her as a challenge.
- Her name, Xanthippe, means "yellow horse," adding another layer to this analogy.