Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 499 - Post-Nonmonogamy: Navigating Life After Polyamory with Andrea Zanin
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Oct 1, 2024 Andrea Zanin, a writer specializing in queer sex and nonmonogamy, dives into the nuances of life after polyamory. They highlight the complexities of evolving identities and the journey from non-monogamy to solitude, emphasizing personal growth and relationship dynamics. Zanin explores how societal perceptions affect personal choices and the importance of embracing solitude as a fulfilling option. They discuss the impact of non-monogamous experiences on future relationships, showcasing how open communication fosters understanding and growth.
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Post-Non-Monogamy Statistics
- A larger percentage of people have tried non-monogamy than currently practice it.
- This statistic doesn't mean non-monogamy fails; people's needs and desires evolve.
Rigidity and Fear
- Rigidity in relationship beliefs often stems from fear of the unknown or failure.
- Marginalized groups, like non-monogamous people, may exhibit defensiveness due to societal attacks.
Pathways to Post-Non-Monogamy
- Three pathways lead to post-non-monogamy: low sex drive, stress/trauma, and contentment in solitude.
- These pathways aren't mutually exclusive and may overlap or be temporary.