
ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show 841: Living Like Roommates
Jan 7, 2025
Couples often find themselves living like roommates, losing that soul-deep connection. Discover how to break free from the roommate cycle through intentional daily interactions. The hosts explore causes like busyness and communication breakdowns, urging self-reflection. They share inspiring listener strategies like date nights and tech-free time. Alisa’s daily tracker, featuring kisses and conversation cards, offers practical ways to reconnect. With actionable steps and encouragement, this discussion sparks hope for deeper intimacy in marriage.
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Roommate Cycle Is A Connection Problem
- Living like roommates happens when daily connection fades and marriage shifts into logistics over romance.
- Connection across the six pillars requires daily intentional choices, not passive hope.
Hosts Share Their Own Roommate Seasons
- Tony and Alisa admit they've experienced roommate seasons in their 28 years of marriage and college roommate memories.
- Those seasons included logistics, separate couches, and periods of apathy toward the relationship.
Start Small — Make One Daily Change
- Start changing today with small, intentional actions instead of waiting for big annual goals.
- Look in the mirror first and ask what you personally will do to break the roommate cycle.

