176: How to Cope with the Burden of Being the Ugly Friend | Feedback Friday
Mar 22, 2019
This week dives into the struggles of dealing with a recently widowed parent moving on too quickly. Listeners seek advice on balancing responsibilities when a coworker won't retire and how to rebuild after setbacks in business. The conversation also touches on job seeker dilemmas about medical needs and what makes a good reason for relocating. Plus, thoughts on feeling like the less attractive friend in a duo and how to lead by example in environmental concerns. Lastly, tips on meaningful gift-giving for those who seem to have it all!
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volunteer_activism ADVICE
Addressing Dad's Rebound Spending
Talk to your dad out of concern, not anger, about his spending habits.
Express worry about his financial future and suggest a more sustainable approach.
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Suggesting a Check-Up
Persuade your dad to get a physical check-up due to his sudden behavioral changes.
Inform his doctor beforehand about the changes to aid in diagnosis.
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Dealing with Unproductive Coworker
Document every instance of covering for Joe's work.
Search for a new job and explain your reasons for leaving, including the documentation, to HR.
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The Art and Science of Using Gifts to Cut Through the Noise, Increase Referrals and Strengthen Retention
John Ruhlin
In 'Giftology,' John Ruhlin shares his expertise on the art and science of using gifts to enhance business relationships. The book emphasizes the importance of 'radical generosity' and how thoughtful, well-planned gifts can open doors, express appreciation, and create a significant return on investment. Ruhlin draws from his own experiences, including his successful strategies with Cutco and his work with high-profile clients, to illustrate how gifting can be a powerful tool in business. He highlights key principles such as mastering reciprocity, targeting the right gifts and timing, and making gifts that resonate with the recipient's inner circle.
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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
Is it wrong to be mad at your recently widowed parent for proposing to a rebound fling just six months after the funeral?
You're sick of picking up the slack for your 70-year-old coworker who chooses not to retire. What should you do?
How do you rebuild your business when your last 10 years has suddenly pulled out from under you?We might have some advice.
As a job seeker, when is the right time to disclose that you have regular medical needs that require creative scheduling?
We've talked about the wrong reasons to move, but what are some of the right reasons? When do the pros outweigh the cons?
How do you shake the feeling of playing second fiddle when you're pretty sure you're the ugly friend in a two-person dynamic?
You seem to be the only one in your neighborhood concerned about environmental apocalypse. How do you lead by example without blowing a gasket?
What meaningful gifts can you get for mentors -- or anyone else for that matter -- who already seem to have everything they need?
Life Pro Tip: When responding to advice, say "You're right" instead of "I know." It shows that you're actually listening to someone, that you care about what they say, and give them credit for trying to help.
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