Awesome Marriage Podcast Worth Repeating: Checking In So You Don't Check Out - How To Prevent Conflict
May 25, 2021
Conflict in relationships is often driven by selfishness, and simple communication can prevent unnecessary fights. Emphasizing empathy and teamwork can help couples address differences without escalating into arguments. Regular check-ins, both daily and weekly, keep couples emotionally connected and can thwart emotional withdrawal. Mindfully handling hurts and avoiding assumptions fosters a healthier partnership. Effective communication is key to building intimacy and joy in marriage.
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Selfishness Fuels Preventable Fights
- Most marital conflict stems from selfishness and poor listening rather than fundamental differences.
- When couples practice true empathy and listening, differences rarely escalate into fights.
Approach Problems As A Team
- Treat your marriage as a team and ask, "How can this be a win-win for us?"
- Practice empathetic listening by imagining your spouse's day and concerns before responding.
Plan Ahead For Known Stressors
- When stressed situations are coming, plan and communicate expectations ahead of time with your spouse.
- Pray and visualize doing things differently to avoid repeating past triggers.