Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties Episode 21: To Know You And Love You So Simply
Nov 19, 2018
In a lively discussion, the hosts tackle the realities of adulting with humorous stories and insights. They explore the nuances of secret relationships and cultural expectations, emphasizing communication and support. A heartfelt examination of post-breakup emotions reveals the complexities of attachment. They also confront the pressures of toxic masculinity and propose broader definitions of legacy. Throughout, themes of gratitude and resilience shine, culminating in inspiring tales of transformation and hope.
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Clinging to Past Love
- Claire struggles to let go of love for her ex despite breakup caused by substance abuse and codependency.
- She still fantasizes about him and finds it hard to move on or settle for others.
The Poisoned Love Insight
- Breakups caused by external "poisons" like substance abuse can be hardest to get over.
- Idealizing the partner ignores the reality that the relationship was not perfect.
Date Imperfect People to Move On
- Try dating imperfect people to open your heart and move on from an idealized ex.
- Give second dates a chance but learn to draw the line if things don't improve.