Explore the delusion of 'the one that got away' and the antidote to heartbreak, understand reasons behind relationship endings, overcoming relationship obstacles, and emphasizing genuine relationships.
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Understanding that someone's choice to not be in a relationship is a reflection of their feelings, can help us separate and move on from the idea of them being 'The One That Got Away.'
Recognizing that someone consistently choosing not to be in a relationship means they don't feel the same as us, and moving on to find someone who shares our feelings is important for a genuine and happy relationship.
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Delusion of the 'One that Got Away'
Walking around thinking about someone as the one that got away, but that person chose not to be with us, is a kind of delusion. When someone chooses not to make a relationship work, it is often because they don't feel the same way about it as we do. Understanding that their choice is a reflection of their feelings towards the relationship can help us separate and move on, even though it may still be painful.
Obstacles and Genuine Love
In situations where there are significant obstacles preventing a relationship, it is important to recognize that if someone claims that a happy relationship is not possible, it is their truth. Trying to convince them to be unhappy with us so we can feel something is selfish. A real relationship is one where both people can be happy together. If someone consistently chooses not to be in a relationship, it means they don't feel the same way as us, and it is better to move on and find someone who shares our feelings.
"I should be over them by now...but what if they were 'The One'?" "Will I ever love someone that way again?" It's normal to go through feelings of panic and regret when someone breaks up with us whom we love and admire. Or when we look back on the good qualities they have and worry if they were the ONLY person who can make us happy. But this kind of thinking can be a trap for many reasons. In this clip, Matt explains an unexpected way of looking at the situation after a breakup that can help to heal your heartbreak. --- ►►Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days Find Out More At. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com
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