

Why Clarity Comes When You Stop Forcing It
Jun 4, 2025
Dora delves into the paradox of insight, revealing how overthinking often leads to frustration. She shares a Zen koan that illustrates the power of stepping back to gain clarity. The conversation also touches on the evolution of Shopify as a crucial platform for small businesses, showcasing innovative approaches to affordable luxury. By blending personal reflections with actionable advice, listeners are encouraged to let go of mental clutter for a clearer mind.
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Struggle Writing Simple Email
- Dora Kamau struggled extensively over a simple follow-up email, rewriting it multiple times.
- She gained clarity only after stepping away and stopping her forced effort.
Insight Comes When Not Forced
- Insight often doesn't come from intensified effort but from stepping back.
- Forcing clarity can push the answer further away rather than closer.
Zen Koan Example of Insight
- A Zen student struggled to answer the koan "What is the sound of one hand clapping?" through analysis.
- The answer came only after he stopped forcing it and rested his mind, leading to understanding beyond words.