PsycHacks Episode 497: Put her to work (women want to care for you)
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Jan 10, 2025 Men often feel frustrated by women's perceived reluctance to contribute in relationships. However, many women are eager to care, given the right conditions. The nurturing instinct in women intertwines with modern dating challenges, complicating emotional dynamics. By defining roles early on and engaging women meaningfully, men can gauge compatibility and foster stronger connections. This conversation investigates attraction, relationship expectations, and the impact of personal growth on building healthy partnerships.
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Women's Need to Nurture
- Women possess a natural desire to nurture and care for others.
- This instinct, when unfulfilled, can lead to anxiety or instability.
Evolutionary Anxiety
- Women's higher anxiety rates might be linked to their evolved role in childcare.
- Historically, women were never truly alone, unlike today's societal shift.
Define Roles Early
- Put women in the role you desire early in courtship, like on a first date.
- This clarifies expectations and assesses compatibility for both partners.
