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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

My Toddler Won't Separate or Warm Up to Anyone Else

Nov 28, 2023
Learn how to help a two and a half year old overcome separation anxiety and become more comfortable with family members by respecting their feelings. Explore strategies for introducing the child to other caregivers gradually. Challenge traditional notions of letting babies cry and instead accept and acknowledge their emotions. Discover techniques for introducing a baby to someone new while respecting their comfort levels. Understand the importance of validating and acknowledging children's emotions and needs.
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Quick takeaways

  • Acknowledging and validating a child's discomfort when separating from their primary caregiver can create a safe space for them to express their feelings and promote growth and bonding.
  • Welcoming and accepting a child's discomfort with being held by others, especially if they are naturally more sensitive, can help them feel understood and respected, allowing for gradual exposure and eventual trust-building with others.

Deep dives

Understanding Children's Slow Warm-Up to Others

It is common for children to be slower to warm up to people other than their primary caregiver. This is because they are comfortable and familiar with their caregiver and getting comfortable with someone new requires an adjustment. Some children, especially those who are more sensitive, may find it harder to accept touch or the way someone holds them. It is important for parents to respect their child's feelings and not force them into uncomfortable situations. By acknowledging and validating their child's discomfort, parents can create a safe space for their child to express their feelings. It is also crucial for parents to understand that accommodating a child's discomfort only keeps them stuck in that discomfort, whereas welcoming their feelings allows for growth and bonding.

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