The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

EP 231: EMDR with Kids with Attachment Trauma with Deb Wesselmann

Jul 29, 2025
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Deb Wesselmann
Deb Wesselmann, a pioneer in integrating EMDR therapy with family therapy for children facing attachment trauma, shares her insights on healing processes. She discusses the development of her attachment-focused EMDR model, highlighting its effectiveness in treating complex trauma. Deb emphasizes the importance of creating a secure holding environment for kids and parents alike. The conversation touches on the necessity for therapists to engage in their own healing, ensuring they can provide the best support for families grappling with early trauma.
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ANECDOTE

Robin's Transformative EMDR Training

  • Robin Gobbel shares her personal experience traveling to Denver to train with Deb Wesselmann's team.
  • This introduction marked a pivotal shift in her work with kids experiencing attachment trauma.
INSIGHT

EMDR Mimics REM Sleep Benefits

  • EMDR utilizes bilateral stimulation to mimic REM sleep, aiding mental health through memory processing.
  • It can address trauma even without explicit episodic memory, benefiting those with preverbal trauma.
ADVICE

Gradual EMDR Approach for Kids

  • Start with slow bilateral stimulation to deepen positive connection experiences with kids.
  • Progress gradually to faster stimulation and trauma reprocessing while providing emotional support and reassurance.
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