So Money with Farnoosh Torabi 1900: Money, Divorce, and Midlife Reinvention
Nov 3, 2025
Tracy Byrnes, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and former financial journalist, shares her insights on empowering women to reclaim financial independence, especially post-divorce. She discusses why many women feel ashamed about their money knowledge and highlights common pitfalls during divorce, like holding onto the family home without considering the financial impact. Tracy emphasizes the importance of financial transparency in relationships and offers practical advice on planning finances during and after divorce, while also encouraging women to rebuild confidence and skills.
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Money Knowledge Is Learned, Not Inborn
- Women often feel ashamed for not knowing money because it's not taught and discussing money was taboo in older generations.
- Financial jargon and male gatekeeping deepen that silence, but money is learnable.
Collect Your Financial Logins And Basics
- If you suspect trouble, compile household finances immediately, including usernames and passwords for all accounts.
- Ask basic questions like mortgage, insurance, and monthly costs so you don’t get blindsided later.
Protect Settlement Cash With A Plan
- When you get settlement cash, prioritize a financial plan and avoid flashy, immediate discretionary spending.
- Work with a trusted advisor or coach to map living costs and next steps before big purchases.