S3 Ep 35: Tools for Navigating Challenging Feelings with Dr. Caroline Leaf
Sep 1, 2023
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Dr. Caroline Leaf, communication pathologist and clinical neuroscientist, discusses the power of the mind to change the brain and control chaotic thinking. Topics include the five-step neurocycling process, tools for navigating challenging feelings, using the neuro-cycle with older children, and promoting open conversations about emotions.
The neurocycle process helps individuals gain insight into their thoughts and patterns, leading to positive change.
Parents can create a safe space for children to engage in the neurocycle process, guiding them in expressing and reflecting on their emotions and experiences.
Deep dives
Introducing the Neurocycle Technique
Dr. Caroline Leif discusses the five-step neurocycling process, which is a brain management technique. It involves specific steps to gather awareness of signals such as emotions, sensations, behaviors, and perspectives. By reflecting on these signals, individuals can gain insight into the root causes of their thoughts and patterns. The next step is to write down and deconstruct the gathered information, allowing it to be processed and analyzed. Finally, individuals close the cycle by creating an action or affirmation that promotes positive change. The neurocycle can be utilized by both adults and children to address various challenges, from day-to-day struggles to more significant traumas.
Using the Neurocycle with Children
Parents can create a safe space for children to engage in the neurocycle process. By designated an area, providing toys or art supplies, parents can guide children in expressing their emotions, behaviors, and perspectives using toys or pictures. Parents can engage in conversations with older children, using language that helps them identify and reflect on their feelings and experiences. Through collaborative problem-solving, children can gain insight, finding ways to cope with their challenges or fears. Parents play a crucial role in providing empathy, validation, and support while allowing their children to take ownership of their thoughts and emotions.
The Benefits of Neurocycling
Neurocycling offers a valuable tool for both parents and children to manage their minds and promote mental well-being. By engaging in the neurocycle process, individuals learn to recognize and navigate their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors in a structured and organized manner. The neurocycle helps individuals develop self-regulation skills, empowering them to make conscious choices and strive for positive change. Through consistent practice, the neurocycle can help individuals develop resilience and improve their ability to handle stress, anxiety, and challenging situations. It serves as a practical and effective method for personal growth and mental transformation.
The Importance of Time and Practice
To experience meaningful behavior change and rewire patterns, it is important to dedicate time and consistent practice to the neurocycle. Research suggests that a minimum of 63 days, roughly nine weeks, is required for effective behavior change. By engaging in the neurocycle daily for the recommended period, individuals can create lasting positive changes in their lives. Patience, dedication, and a willingness to engage in self-reflection are key to unlocking the full potential of the neurocycle and its transformative effects.
This week, we're joined by Dr. Caroline Leaf. Dr. Caroline Leaf is a communication pathologist and clinical neuroscientist specializing in psychoneurobiology. Her passion is to help people see the power of the mind to change the brain, control chaotic thinking, and find mental peace.
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