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Sexology

EP349 - How to Tease Your Partner with Ruth Ramsay

Aug 29, 2023
Sex educator Ruth Ramsay discusses the art of strip-teasing, ways to create excitement through role-playing, the importance of communication to prevent discomfort, and how to introduce mystery and curiosity into long-term relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • Teasing requires careful reading of reactions and creating anticipation through suggestive gestures, while flirting focuses on the viewer's experience.
  • Crafting a narrative in teasing can reignite excitement by exploring the opposite of the usual relationship dynamic and using elements like music and body language.

Deep dives

The Art of Teasing and Flirtation: Enhancing Intimacy and Connection

Teasing and flirtation play a crucial role in enhancing intimacy and connection between partners. Teasing requires subtlety, empathy, and careful reading of the other person's reactions, while flirting is often more focused on the viewer's experience. Teasing involves creating intrigue and anticipation by using suggestive gestures like extended eye contact, smiling, and slowly stroking one's hair or skin. The narrative of teasing can be crafted by considering the opposite of the usual dynamic in the relationship and exploring new ways to ignite desire and playfulness. Communication, checking in with the partner, and giving a heads up about intentions are essential to avoid misunderstandings and pressure. It's important to remember that teasing is a learning journey, and experimentation is encouraged for a more playful and connected sex life.

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