Sexology

EP349 - How to Tease Your Partner with Ruth Ramsay

Aug 29, 2023

Sex educator Ruth Ramsay discusses the art of strip-teasing, ways to create excitement through role-playing, the importance of communication to prevent discomfort, and how to introduce mystery and curiosity into long-term relationships.

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Quick takeaways

Teasing requires careful reading of reactions and creating anticipation through suggestive gestures, while flirting focuses on the viewer's experience.

Crafting a narrative in teasing can reignite excitement by exploring the opposite of the usual relationship dynamic and using elements like music and body language.

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The Art of Teasing and Flirtation: Enhancing Intimacy and Connection

Teasing and flirtation play a crucial role in enhancing intimacy and connection between partners. Teasing requires subtlety, empathy, and careful reading of the other person's reactions, while flirting is often more focused on the viewer's experience. Teasing involves creating intrigue and anticipation by using suggestive gestures like extended eye contact, smiling, and slowly stroking one's hair or skin. The narrative of teasing can be crafted by considering the opposite of the usual dynamic in the relationship and exploring new ways to ignite desire and playfulness. Communication, checking in with the partner, and giving a heads up about intentions are essential to avoid misunderstandings and pressure. It's important to remember that teasing is a learning journey, and experimentation is encouraged for a more playful and connected sex life.

Introduction

5min

Seductive Dancing, Transition, and the Path to Becoming a Coach

4min

Teasing vs Flirting

16min

Personal care sponsor promotion and discussion on seduction and teasing in relationships

4min

Balancing Pursuit and Pressure

16min

The Power of Teasing and the Importance of Mystery in Long Term Relationships

4min

Welcome to episode 349 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Ruth Ramsay about strip teasing, ways to create a contrasting story or role to spice things up, how you can experiment with personas for excitement and the importance of prior communication to prevent discomfort.

In 2001, Ruth Ramsay began her journey at the London School of Striptease, forsaking journalism for the empowering allure of the art. Over 12 eventful years, she danced, performed globally, taught, modeled, and advocated for adult entertainment workers' rights. She also championed erotic rights for people with disabilities, earning an Erotic Award.

During this time, Ruth learned unexpected lessons in sexual empowerment. As a striptease teacher, she saw students bloom and audiences embrace their sexuality. This journey boosted confidence and joy across life's facets.

After meeting her soulmate, Ruth left the erotic industry, prioritizing her stepfamily and fitness training. When her stepchildren left for university, she turned to transformational life coaching, lighting the way for others on matters of sexual happiness and identity.

Ruth seamlessly merges her experiences with coaching, providing a safe space for clients to explore desires. Her journey amplifies her non-judgmental approach. Her dance background nurtured unflappability and compassion. Guiding individuals toward sexual and overall empowerment now brings her the fulfillment dance once did.

In this episode, you will hear:

Crafting a narrative breaks routine which can be exciting for a long-term relationship.
Ways to create a contrasting story or role to spice things up.
How Ruth shifted from strip tease artist to sex educator and coach
The challenges in teasing relationships, emphasizing timing and communication.
Looking at teasing and seduction adds playfulness and depth.
How you can experiment with personas, and scenarios for excitement.
Make sure to prioritize your pleasure and excitement too.
How the narrative approach engages both partners and builds anticipation.
Embrace creativity, communication, and vulnerability for reconnection.
The importance of prior communication to prevent discomfort.
Why you should keep learning and experimenting in teasing to deepen understanding.

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