Pillow Talks EPISODE 217: Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It
Jul 17, 2025
Explore the cringe-worthy phenomenon of 'the ick' in relationships, where even the smallest quirks can turn love into repulsion. Discover hilarious listener stories about everything from bad breath to annoying chewing, and what triggers these feelings. Learn how 'the ick' differs from serious red flags and get practical tips on handling attraction challenges. The hosts share light-hearted anecdotes about personal hygiene and the absurdity of romantic preferences, reminding us that even quirks can spark laughter in love.
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What the "Ick" Really Means
- The "ick" is a small thing that suddenly kills attraction despite many positives.
- It wipes away positive feelings instantly, marking a point of no return in attraction.
Ick Versus Red Flags
- The "ick" is not always rational or obvious to others and may seem insignificant.
- It differs from red flags which involve core beliefs, values, or abuse.
Funny Specific Ick Examples
- Examples of ick include partner high-fiving loudly, cleaning ears with a Q-tip publicly, or squeezing condiments directly into the mouth.
- These quirky behaviors can evoke strong turns offs despite being minor or eccentric.