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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Rewind): The BIG SIGNS You Should KEEP TRYING With Someone You're Dating

Dec 8, 2023
07:34
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Learn how to invest wisely in relationships and distinguish between investing and chasing in dating.
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Quick takeaways

  • The importance of investing in those who invest in you, as a great relationship involves mutual investment and energy.
  • Effective communication is crucial in dating to convey interest and liking, while chasing indicates low self-worth and putting someone on a pedestal.

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Invest in Those Who Invest in You

The central problem in relationships is that people tend to invest based on how much they like someone, rather than how much the other person is investing in them. The speaker emphasizes the importance of investing in those who invest in you. However, this can lead to a standoff where both parties wait for the other to make the first move. To address this, the speaker suggests a principle of investing and then testing. This involves giving a little and observing if the other person reciprocates. For example, starting a conversation with someone at a coffee shop, or paying attention to their level of engagement in texting. The key is to assess whether the investment from both parties is equal.

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