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S36 E4: "How to Raise Kids Who Aren't Assholes: Science-Based Strategies for Better Parenting—From Tots to Teens" by Melinda Wenner Moyer

Oct 12, 2023
Award-winning science journalist Melinda Wenner Moyer explores effective parenting strategies for raising good individuals, including building resiliency in kids by allowing them to fail and emphasizing effort over ability. She also discusses strategies for responding to misbehavior, teaching empathy, and using mediation to promote cooperation during conflicts.
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  • Parents should allow their children to fail and navigate challenges themselves to promote resilience and self-confidence.
  • When children misbehave, parents should respond with empathy and guidance rather than anger to foster emotional regulation and constructive behavior.

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Building Resilience Through Failure and Effort

One important aspect of parenting is allowing children to fail and navigate challenges themselves. When parents overly protect their kids from failure, it can hinder their resilience and self-confidence. Research suggests that children who perceive their parents' help as a sign of incompetence may struggle with feelings of low self-efficacy. By giving kids the opportunity to fail and emphasizing effort over fixed abilities, parents can promote a growth mindset, helping children see challenges as learning opportunities.

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