Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 545 - AI Relationships: Ethics, Intimacy, & Algorithms with Dr. Julie Carpenter
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Sep 2, 2025 Dr. Julie Carpenter, a social scientist and author of The Naked Android, dives into the fascinating intersection of AI and human relationships. She explores how emotional vulnerability shapes our interactions with AI, raising questions about authenticity and intimacy. The discussion delves into ethical implications of AI companions and the addictive nature of technology, all while emphasizing the need for transparent communication in these evolving dynamics. With insights on AI literacy, Carpenter challenges us to rethink our connections in a digital age.
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Using AI For Roleplay And Practice
- Emily used generative AI to role-play difficult conversations and to run a therapeutic 'chair' exercise with alternate parts of herself.
- She found it useful for rehearsing and exploring perspectives without making the AI a romantic partner.
Voice AI Prioritized Solutions Over Empathy
- Jace tried Google Gemini's voice chat to process stress but it kept reverting to problem-solving instead of validating his feelings.
- He concluded Gemini couldn't provide the emotional support he wanted, limiting romantic potential.
Bodiless AI Lowers Social Resistance
- Lack of embodiment in generative AI makes it easier for people to project fantasies and accept relationships as 'fan fiction.'
- Embodiment triggers stronger social and cultural judgments that bodiless AI often avoids.
