Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 115 - Cooper S. Beckett on Swinger Resorts and Sexy Vacations
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Apr 18, 2017 Cooper S. Beckett, author and pegging enthusiast, joins the show to discuss his new novel, Approaching the Swingularity. They explore sexy swinging vacations, the intersection of swingers and polyamorists, and the delights of pegging. The hosts also discuss the importance of keeping the podcast free and accessible, the costs of non-monogamy, and the accessibility and affordability of swinger events. They even introduce the concept of pegging, debunk misconceptions, and discuss health benefits.
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Swing Resort Takeovers Growth
- Cooper described a deep connection and belonging feeling at the Desire resort in Cancun similar to Burning Man.
- He hosted annual swing resort takeovers, growing from 30 to 111 couples in five years.
Swingers and Polyamory Crossover Fear
- There is initial fear and discomfort between swingers and polyamorous folks due to unfamiliarity.
- Over time and interaction, this fear lessens, revealing overlapping interests in open relationships.
Rise of 'Open' Over Labels
- Younger generations trend towards identifying as "open" rather than strictly swinger or poly.
- The 2008 financial crisis interrupted traditional relationship trajectories, encouraging reevaluation of monogamy.