Love Life With Matthew Hussey

(Matt Monday): Give Me 10 Minutes...I’ll Save You 10 Years Wasted on the WRONG Person

Jul 14, 2025
Are you stuck obsessing over someone who doesn’t feel the same? Dive into the intriguing concept of limerence and how it can dent your confidence. Discover the signs of this emotional fixation and why it fuels endless hope. Learn practical steps to break free and regain your power. Plus, get ready for a 30-Day Confidence Challenge that promises personal growth and self-discovery. If you’re caught in this emotional loop, there’s a way out!
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INSIGHT

What Is Limerence?

  • Limerence is an obsessive desire for someone to love us back, causing relentless thoughts about them.
  • It consumes our focus even when we should be doing other important things in life.
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Hope and Uncertainty Fuel Limerence

  • Limerence thrives on hope and uncertainty about the other person's feelings.
  • Fear of rejection worsens obsession and causes us to lose confidence and self-worth.
ANECDOTE

Matthew Hussey's Limerence Experience

  • Matthew Hussey lost himself and confidence through limerence in a personal experience.
  • It took time for him to rebuild his sense of self-worth after that damage.
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