The Libido Fairy Podcast #76: The Real Reason You Don’t Want Sex (And How to Fix It)
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Feb 11, 2025 Explore the biggest myth about libido that might be holding you back. Discover why desire often fades in long-term relationships and what truly drives your motivation for intimacy. Find out a transformative question that could shift your perspective on sexual desire. If sex has begun to feel like a chore, this discussion could provide the insights you need for a renewed spark.
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Sex Is Motivated Behavior
- Sex is not a biological necessity but a motivated behavior seeking a reward.
- If sex feels like obligation or pain, motivation to want it naturally disappears.
Hannah's Personal Libido Journey
- Hannah's initial reason for sex was preventing a partner from leaving and later seeking validation.
- After receiving those rewards, her desire vanished as there was no new motivation.
Understanding Your Unique Motivators
- Low libido often means not identifying what makes sex worth wanting.
- Motivators for sex vary widely, from connection to adventure or sensation.