Before Breakfast Make complete plans, even if they're tentative
Aug 2, 2024
Discover the art of drafting complete but flexible plans to sharpen communication with friends and family. Explore how vague scheduling leads to confusion, and learn about the balance between structure and spontaneity. Dive into the benefits of adapting your plans for work calls, highlighting the richness of connections that arise from casual interactions instead of strictly pre-planned meetings.
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Make Specific Plans
- Make complete plans, even if tentative, as specific plans are easier to work with.
- Offer a draft plan with time and place, allowing for adjustments later.
Offer a Draft Plan
- Propose a draft complete plan if friends avoid specifics.
- Say, "How about 7am Thursday in your neighborhood? If another time/place works, let me know."
Specific Plans Prevent Forgetfulness
- Specific plans are less likely to be forgotten than vague ones.
- People rarely calendar events like "drinks with Sarah Monday," increasing the chance of forgetting.