KQED's Forum Celebrating 20 Years of ‘Modern Love’
Oct 31, 2024
Daniel Jones, editor of The New York Times' Modern Love column and author of "Love Illuminated," teams up with Anna Martin, host of the Modern Love podcast, to reflect on 20 years of romance narratives. They explore how the column has captured the evolution of love, discussing themes from loss to vulnerability. The conversation highlights poignant anecdotes, how Halloween informs modern dating, and the impact of societal changes on relationships. Listeners are invited to share their own love stories, emphasizing the power of connection.
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Halloween Love Story
- A shy "devil" met a "shadow" at a Halloween party, unsure of love in her new life after coming out at 38.
- 27 years later, they are still together, highlighting a heartwarming Halloween romance.
Halloween and Romance
- Costumes can be liberating and create intimacy, contributing to romance through fantasy and role-playing.
- However, "ghosting" is a scary, modern dating phenomenon reminiscent of Halloween's spooky themes.
Conflict in Love Stories
- Modern Love stories often explore conflict and breakups as drivers of narrative and personal growth.
- The column's debut essay focused on a man dealing with being dumped, setting the tone for exploring relationship complexities.