Raising Good Humans Ep 73: Michael Ian Black is Expanding How We Understand Masculinity
Dec 18, 2020
Michael Ian Black, an author, comedian, and director, shares insights from his book, A Better Man, which is a heartfelt letter to his son about masculinity. He discusses the evolving perceptions of masculinity through generational dialogue, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability alongside traditional values. Michael humorously reflects on the pressures of adhering to gender norms, using anecdotes from a comical Christmas tree outing. The conversation also touches on the impact of cultural shifts on male identity and the significance of healthy parenting practices.
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Expand The Definition Of Masculinity
- Michael Ian Black argues masculinity isn't toxic but needs to be expanded to include vulnerability and empathy.
- He emphasizes male emotions are human emotions and men should be allowed full emotional range.
Women’s Gains Trigger Male Re-Examination
- Michael observes women's broadened roles have forced cultural re-examination and men now feel alienated.
- He believes men must also do the hard work of expanding their roles rather than react defensively.
Alienation Growing Up In A Macho Culture
- Michael describes feeling alienated growing up in 1980s New Jersey where macho culture dominated and creative boys felt excluded.
- He says he buried parts of himself and developed a sarcastic persona to hide vulnerability.
