everybody has a secret

omg a secret from a straight man

Oct 16, 2025
They dive into the intriguing world of first-date ghosting, exploring motivations and awkward workplace encounters. A shocking listener secret reveals a straight man's one-night stand may have resulted in an unexpected pregnancy. The hosts dissect the complexities of contraception discussions and the uncertainty of paternity. As they debate whether he should tell his girlfriend, the conversation is full of twists and relatable dilemmas. It's a rollercoaster of secrets, surprises, and the complexities of modern dating!
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INSIGHT

Online Enthusiasm Often Fizzles Before Dates

  • Many modern daters show high initial enthusiasm but withdraw when a real-life meet is required.
  • Hosts link this to anxious-avoidant behavior and low accountability in digital dating.
ADVICE

Exit Dates Politely—Don't Just Disappear

  • Avoid ghosting someone during or at the end of a date; give a brief, honest exit instead.
  • Use a white lie if needed, but do not abandon someone at the table without explanation.
ANECDOTE

Coworker Ghosted Then Avoided On The Same Floor

  • A listener dated a colleague on the same floor and after a few dates he ghosted her and then ignored her at work.
  • She found the situation awkward, especially as she was leaving the job soon.
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