What is a Good Life? What is a Good Life? #54 - Exploring Our Conditioning with Gab Ciminelli
On the 54th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I am delighted to introduce our guest, Gab Ciminelli. Gab is the Founder of the Silent Leadership Institute in Japan, author of Nothing Changes the World: Excerpts and Insights on the Art of Nothing, and speaker on The Art of Nothing.
In this illuminating discussion, we explore our capacity not to learn from our mistakes and how we get swept away by our conditioning - be it our upbringing, education, culture, etc.
We share our experiences of re-sensitising ourselves to the human beings we naturally are, through silence, space, reflection, and nature, and the experiences of suffering that prompted a departure from the status quo.
We delve into navigating our wider sense of disconnection and separation, transcending our ideas of identity and our fixation on measurement and labels, to an awareness of what is, and how we could step into the unknown.
This whole conversation with Gab is a breath of fresh air. His open-heartedness and willingness to explore embody much of what he is pointing towards in this conversation. If you are in need of looking at your life and world with a fresh set of eyes, this conversation will give you multiple pointers as to how you can start.
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Running Order:
02:57 Why don’t we change or learn from our past?
07:07 Are we aware of our conditioning?
12:07 The role of space, nature, and silence
17:05 Questioning identification, labels, and division
21:07 The influence of measurement, assumptions and comparison
26:27 The role of suffering, self-exploration and the liberation of failure
34:22 Fear and the interconnectedness of our minds
39:07 Hitting a wall and a realisation of Nothing
43:07 Our fear of not knowing and curiosity
50:32 Could we start afresh?
1:02:52 What is a good life for Gab?
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