
 The Mel Robbins Podcast
 The Mel Robbins Podcast How to Move On, Let Go of Past Mistakes, and Reinvent Yourself
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 Jul 24, 2025  In a candid conversation, Carl Lentz, a former megachurch pastor, opens up about his public downfall and the hard truths of accountability. He shares how his mistakes shattered not only his career but also personal relationships. The discussion delves into the importance of self-forgiveness, facing past errors head-on, and the transformative journey of rebuilding oneself. Listeners are encouraged to embrace change and realize that they are not defined by their worst moments, but by the courage to write their next chapter. 
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Break Free From Shame Shackles
- When ashamed, consider shame as self-imposed shackles limiting your movement.
- Choose daily to remove shame by focusing on growth, change, and proving yourself anew.
Hidden Fractures Behind Success
- Carl Lentz hid his infidelity and personal struggles behind a successful pastoral career.
- His denial led to addiction and eventual public downfall and personal loss.
Stop Digging, Seek Support
- Stop digging into your problems by denying them; acknowledge and disclose your struggles.
- Seeking support early can save you and your loved ones from greater harm.

