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Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage & Parenting

1927: We Argue All the Time. Should I Continue in This Relationship? by Melissa Josue on Understanding Your Needs and Your Partner's Need

Oct 14, 2023
12:40
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Guest Melissa Josue, relationship coach, helps a reader navigate their argumentative relationship. They discuss clarifying needs, understanding each other's perspectives on parenting and family dynamics, and the significance of appreciation and communication in relationships.
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  • Envision and communicate individual needs and expectations to determine relationship alignment and necessary compromises.
  • Express feelings, wants, and needs without blame or defensiveness, focusing on appreciation and respect for conflict resolution.

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Clarifying Needs and Relationship Requirements

In this podcast episode, Melissa Josu (Melissa the love coach) addresses a reader who is experiencing constant arguments in their relationship with a divorced man. She advises that the first step is getting clear on the kind of relationship they each want. By envisioning and communicating their individual needs and expectations, they can determine if they align or if compromises are necessary. The key is to discuss each other's needs, desires, and expectations openly, finding solutions that allow both parties to have their needs met. Furthermore, focusing on personal needs and avoiding arguments is crucial for building a strong partnership.

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