The Art of Love With Lucia 6 Questions To Ask Your Ex (When They Want You Back)
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Apr 6, 2020 Reconnecting with an ex can be tricky. Learn how asking the right questions can reveal their intentions and sincerity. Discover six essential inquiries that help you assess whether taking them back is a smart move. The discussion dives into the importance of addressing past issues to avoid repeating mistakes. Don’t fall into the trap of appearing low value—make informed choices about love!
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Treat Reconciliation As A Probation
- Do not take your ex back immediately; treat reconciliation as a probation period to test real change.
- Ask questions to measure their seriousness and effort before resuming the relationship.
Don’t Rapid-Fire The Questions
- A listener emailed that they fired six questions in one message and luckily it worked out for them.
- Lucia warns against rapid-fire questioning and advises slipping questions into conversation gradually.
Demand A Thoughtful Reason
- Ask your ex why they want to get back together and reject answers that only say ‘I miss you.’
- Demand introspection showing they realized their life is better with you in it.