everybody has a secret The Confessional: I lost my virginity to a sex worker
Sep 29, 2025
Explore the intriguing confession of Sophie, who bravely shares her experience of losing her virginity to a sex worker at 22. She opens up about the pressures of inexperience and her quest for queer intimacy. The conversation dives into family dynamics, her coming out story, and the newfound confidence she gained in dating. Sophie reflects on the emotional preparation and unique atmosphere of her first encounter, highlighting how the professional setting eased her anxiety. Ultimately, it’s a candid discussion about sexuality, judgment, and self-acceptance.
AI Snips
Chapters
Transcript
Episode notes
Choosing A Paid First Experience
- Sophie booked a female sex worker at 22 to lose her virginity after feeling pressure and inexperience dating women.
- She prepared emotionally and physically, seeking a controlled, non-judgmental first sexual experience.
How The Meeting Unfolded
- Sophie found the sex worker online, met in a softly lit residential space, and described the encounter as comfortable and professional.
- The session was stop-start and consensual, and Sophie took an active role to learn rather than just receive.
Body Confidence From Practice
- Sophie realised her body "knew what to do" and the experience removed much of her sexual anxiety.
- The encounter reframed her sense of awkwardness into practical confidence for future dating.