The Art of Manliness #500: Let's Talk About Death Over Dinner
Apr 17, 2019
Michael Hebb, founder of Death Over Dinner, inspires listeners to broach the topic of death during social gatherings. He discusses the cultural taboos surrounding mortality and the emotional and financial pitfalls of avoiding these conversations. Hebb offers practical tips for hosting dinners where guests can discuss end-of-life care and personal philosophies about death. He emphasizes how such discussions can deepen connections and foster understanding, ultimately encouraging a more compassionate approach to mortality.
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Consequences of Avoiding Death Discussions
- Not discussing death leads to practical consequences, like not having your end-of-life wishes met.
- 75% of Americans wish to die at home, but only 25% do, highlighting a disconnect between desires and reality.
Communicate Your Wishes
- Inform your family about your end-of-life wishes, including how you want to be treated and where you want to be.
- This helps them advocate for you and ensures your final moments align with your desires.
Inviting Guests to Death Dinners
- When inviting someone to a death dinner, be upfront about the topic and avoid surprises.
- Give people the opportunity to opt out if they feel uncomfortable.
