

41: When they Stop Talking: The Emotional Toll of the Silent Treatment
In this episode, I explore the silent treatment—why it’s used, how it hurts, and how to recognize it as emotional withdrawal, not healthy conflict resolution.
We cover:
- How the silent treatment triggers shame, anxiety, and confusion
- Why some people use it (control, immaturity, learned behavior)
- The lasting damage it causes in relationships
I share personal stories and offer tools to:
- Set boundaries
- Recognize your worth
- Reflect on your own conflict patterns
Silence shouldn’t be used as a weapon. Healthier communication is possible.
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🦋 Enough As I Am - A healing workbook for anyone navigating people-pleasing, guilt, or self-abandonment. It’s filled with practical tools to help you build boundaries and reclaim your self-worth.
🖋️ Enough As I Grow - A 365-day journal with daily prompts to guide you through your healing journey one day at a time.
If you're interested in a list of books that I recommend to help you on your journey you can request it by clicking on the link in my show notes.
🦋 Enough As I Am Workbook on Amazon.
🖋️ Enough as I Grow 365 day Guided Journal on Amazon
📘 Reading list
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