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Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

185. “My fiancé has no savings at 43. Should we get married?”

Dec 3, 2024
Dawn and Richard confront their financial struggles as they plan their marriage while living paycheck to paycheck. They explore the impact of their past money experiences on their current situation, emphasizing the need for a cohesive financial plan. The couple grapples with differing spending habits and the emotional toll of financial insecurity. Discussions on retirement savings and shared financial goals highlight the complexities of combining finances, revealing the importance of open conversations and accountability in their relationship.
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Quick takeaways

  • Dawn's tendency to overspend on her family complicates their financial stability, requiring them to establish clear spending boundaries together.
  • Richard's past financial trauma influences his reluctance to invest, highlighting the need for open communication on their investment strategy.

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Financial Struggles of Dawn and Richard

Dawn and Richard are a couple living paycheck to paycheck, facing significant financial challenges. Dawn, at 48, struggles with overspending on her family while Richard, 43, deals with past trauma from a financially devastating breakup that left him fearful of spending. Their incomes are mismatched, with Dawn earning three times what Richard makes, creating tension in their relationship as they try to combine their finances. This financial imbalance has caused them to almost break up, highlighting their ongoing struggle to find common ground in managing their money.

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