The PedsDocTalk Podcast: Child Health, Development & Parenting—From a Pediatrician Mom The Follow-Up: 5 Things to Stop Doing as Parents
Sep 8, 2025
Discover essential parenting insights with a focus on five things to stop doing as parents. Learn why comparing your child to others can be harmful and why spanking falls short as a discipline method. Embrace your role as a parent rather than striving to be your child's friend. Understand the dangers of chasing the elusive 'perfect' kid and prioritize your own needs for a healthier family dynamic. This discussion is all about fostering a balanced and supportive environment for both parents and children.
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Quit Comparing Kids
- Stop comparing your child to others; it robs joy and hampers their growth.
- Talk to your pediatrician only if you truly worry about milestones.
Don't Spank Your Child
- Avoid spanking because research shows it doesn't teach lasting behavior change and can increase aggression.
- Use timeouts, discussion, and coping-skill teaching instead of corporal punishment.
Be The Parent, Set Boundaries
- Be a parent, not a permissive friend; set clear boundaries and expectations for behavior.
- Practice authoritative parenting: nurture plus consistent limits.