

Challenging Cultural Silence: Why Abuse Must Be Addressed w/Bassy Kutten
Mar 23, 2025
Bassy Kutten, a brave speaker and advocate who grew up in New Square, opens up about her journey from trauma to healing. She discusses the emotional challenges of addressing childhood abuse and the crucial role of therapy in self-acceptance. The conversation dives into cultural silences surrounding abuse, especially within Jewish communities, and the importance of brave voices in driving change. Bassy also explores the impact of spirituality and community support in healing, making for a compelling discussion on resilience and the necessity of breaking cycles of silence.
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Bassy's Childhood Trauma
- Bassy Kutten grew up in New Square, a very closed, Hasidic community with extreme modesty rules.
- She experienced sexual abuse by family members during childhood but was dissociated and unaware of the full extent until adulthood.
Memory Doubt in Abuse Survivors
- Survivors of abuse often doubt their memories because trauma is stored differently in the brain and body.
- This creates confusion about whether the abuse really happened, complicating the healing process.
Struggles Post-Childbirth
- After having three children close together, Bassy’s mental health deteriorated due to unresolved trauma from childhood abuse.
- She felt responsible for others' well-being at her own expense, leading to anxiety and difficulty functioning.