In this podcast, Janet addresses a parent's struggle with setting limits for their 15-month-old, offering advice on respectful parenting. The discussion highlights the importance of establishing boundaries, creating a safe play environment, and managing mealtime behavior with honesty and clear communication.
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Quick takeaways
Establishing a predictable routine for children from infancy aids in setting boundaries and promoting self-efficacy.
Creating a safe enclosed space for children's self-directed play enhances creativity and exploration, fostering development.
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Setting Up a Predictable Routine for Children's Self-Discipline
Creating a predictable routine for children, starting from infancy, helps establish boundaries and limits. Infants can anticipate what happens next in their day, fostering a sense of self-efficacy. This routine allows children to relax and understand their environment, promoting early learning and self-discipline.
Creating a Safe Play Area for Children's Development
Establishing a safe enclosed space for children's self-directed play enhances their creativity. This safe area should be comfortable and engaging, fostering exploration and discovery. Enclosing the space early helps children accept it positively, providing a sense of freedom and familiarity that aids in their development.
Setting Direct and Clear Limits in Parenting
When addressing testing behaviors like throwing food, parents should be direct, connected, and clear in setting limits. Engaging with the child during meals and using simple, assertive language helps convey expectations. Children thrive when given straightforward answers and guidance, leading to improved behavior and mutual understanding.
Janet responds to an email from a parent who’s struggling with how to start setting limits with her 15-month-old. She says she wants to “parent with respect, with a gentle approach and natural consequences,” but her daughter’s constant testing has her feeling exhausted. “And I know the hard stuff is only beginning!” This mom suspects she should have started establishing limits when her daughter was younger, but she’s hoping Janet has some strategies and advice on how to proceed now.
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