The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett The Orgasm Expert: Women Don’t Like Penetrative Sex As Much As Men! This Is How Often You Should Be Having Sex! Stop Inviting Pets Into The Bedroom! - Doctor Karen Gurney
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Feb 19, 2024 Dr. Karen Gurney, a seasoned Clinical Psychologist and Psychosexologist, delves into the intricacies of desire and intimacy in relationships. She discusses why women often prefer non-penetrative sex and how modern distractions hinder sexual satisfaction. Gurney emphasizes the concept of 'sexual currency,' urging couples to invest in their emotional connections. She also addresses challenges faced during parenting, the importance of open communication, and the need to rethink sexual fulfillment in a busy world.
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Desire Management
- Spontaneous desire diminishes after 18 months in a relationship, impacted by familiarity and diluted roles.
- Women struggle more with maintaining spontaneous desire than men, potentially due to societal expectations.
Triggering Desire
- Don't wait for spontaneous desire; trigger it through sexual activity and stimuli.
- Understand that desire can emerge from being sexual, not just precede it.
Sexual Currency
- "Sexual currency" is anything marking you as a sexual couple beyond sex itself.
- Low sexual currency and high familiarity hinder desire; nurture your sexual relationship constantly.
