Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

3807: Are You Quick to Judge? by Kerri Richardson on Personal Growth

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Nov 14, 2025
Diving into the motivations behind our snap judgments, Kerri Richardson reveals how these reactions often mirror our own insecurities. She emphasizes personal responsibility in emotional responses, urging listeners to reflect before reacting. The discussion also touches on how personal history shapes our perceptions and the hidden emotional payoffs of resisting change. Instead of criticizing others, she advocates for celebrating achievements, showcasing how positivity can expand our possibilities.
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ANECDOTE

Viral Photo That Triggered Polarized Reactions

  • Maria Kang posted a photo with her three kids and the tagline, "what's your excuse?", which went viral and sparked heated comments.
  • Kerri Richardson recounts how her own health journey changed her reaction from defensive to admiring.
INSIGHT

Reactions Reveal Inner Wounds

  • A quick, charged reaction usually signals unresolved issues in the reactor, not the subject.
  • Kerri Richardson argues that emotional reactions act as mirrors revealing personal wounds.
ANECDOTE

Blaming External Factors For Others' Success

  • Commenters blamed Maria's body on trainers and nannies, using imagined excuses to avoid accountability.
  • Richardson shares this example to show how people externalize responsibility instead of changing behavior.
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