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The Next Right Thing

313: The Liturgy of Lightheartedness

Feb 6, 2024
The podcast explores the struggles of parenting during the pandemic, including generation gaps, involvement, and regret. It discusses the advice of finding internal freedom and not taking parenting too seriously. The concept of cultivating a liturgy of light-heartedness and benevolent detachment is explored, along with the delicate balance of nurturing and letting go. The importance of creating space for others to grow and practicing self-kindness is emphasized.
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Quick takeaways

  • Cultivating a liturgy of light-heartedness can help counter the tendency to over-care in parenting and caregiving.
  • Adopting a light-hearted posture and trusting in Jesus' words can bring relief from the burdens of over-care and over-functioning.

Deep dives

The Challenge of Caring Too Much

One of the main challenges the speaker faced in 2023 was caring too much, particularly in relation to parenting. This was a recurring issue for the speaker, as it also appeared in their 2021 reflection. Parenting teenagers during the COVID years was exceptionally difficult, both due to the circumstances and the speaker's response to them. The speaker discusses the struggle of parenting and caregiving when there is a generational gap, questioning their abilities and feeling the weight of responsibility. However, the speaker shares that the most valuable advice received was to stop caring so much, but in a loving and light-hearted way. This insight has made a significant difference in the speaker's life, allowing them to find a delicate balance between being present and not over-caring.

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