Guests on the podcast discuss submitting personal essays to the New York Times 'Modern Love' column, exploring storytelling intricacies, self-effacement, and the emotional journey of deciding to submit an essay under their real name.
Submitting personal essays under real names to prestigious columns like Modern Love can be a transformative and liberating experience.
Embracing honesty and vulnerability in storytelling, while avoiding overly positive or accusatory narratives, is essential for impactful writing.
Deep dives
Submission to Modern Love Column of NY Times
The speaker discusses the pivotal decision to submit a personal essay to the Modern Love column in The New York Times under their real name. Despite initial reservations about writing competitions, encouragement from an editor and research on different submissions led to the essay's creation.
Importance of Authenticity in Writing
The speaker reflects on the writing process, sharing insights from a document by Daniel Jones, the editor of Modern Love. Jones emphasizes the importance of honest portrayals of individuals in writing, cautioning against overly positive or prosecutorial narratives, and highlighting the power of self-deprecation and letting scenes speak for themselves.
Facing Vulnerability and Follow Signs
The speaker describes the emotional journey of disclosing personal stories, especially regarding relationships, and the anticipation of reactions from those involved. They draw strength from Daniel Jones' assertion that truthful events can be documented, providing a sense of liberation and validation in sharing personal narratives. Embracing signs and intuition, the speaker shows determination to pursue opportunities, like submitting to Modern Love, despite uncertainties and potential challenges.
I submitted a personal essay to the New York Times weekly column, Modern Love.
In this episode I talk about how I learned about the column, how I decided to submit an essay under my real name, and a little context for what the essay is about.