Memoir Snob Episode 47: Modern Love
Jun 21, 2024
Guests on the podcast discuss submitting personal essays to the New York Times 'Modern Love' column, exploring storytelling intricacies, self-effacement, and the emotional journey of deciding to submit an essay under their real name.
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NYT Submission
- Charlie Bleaker submitted a personal essay to the New York Times' "Modern Love" column.
- This is her first submission to any publication, and she used her real name due to the column's no-pseudonym policy.
Show, Don't Tell
- When writing, show, don't tell; use action and dialogue instead of explaining thoughts and feelings.
- Avoid prosecutorial essays where you solely blame others without considering their perspective.
Writing About Others
- When writing about others, remember they can't defend themselves in your narrative.
- Be hardest on yourself; self-deprecation can make you appear more fair and relatable.