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A Spy's Guide to Parenting

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Jan 2, 2026
In this enlightening discussion, Emily Oster, a Brown University economics professor and author, advocates for treating family life with the same intentionality as a business, suggesting structured decision-making and efficiency. Former CIA analysts Christina and Ryan Hillsberg share intriguing insights on parenting through the lens of intelligence work, emphasizing the importance of teaching kids to trust their instincts and to question authority. They explore the balance of autonomy and technology use while promoting diverse skill exposure for adaptable, resilient children.
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INSIGHT

Treat Family Like A Firm

  • Run your family with deliberate mission, decisions, and processes like a well-run firm.
  • This reduces logistical friction and frees emotional energy for family connection.
ADVICE

Create A Family Big Picture

  • Sit down with your calendar and design an ideal realistic day for your family now.
  • Use that big picture to guide future choices about activities and schedule tradeoffs.
ADVICE

Use The Four F's For Big Choices

  • Use the Four F's: Frame, Fact-find, Final decision, and Follow-up for big choices.
  • Schedule decisions, gather logistics/data, close the decision, then plan a revisit point.
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