Ep. 200 - How to Spot When Gossip is Shadow or Inner Child Blocks

On today’s episode, Lacy & Jessica cover the energetics of gossip, and how it points to where you need healing in your manifestation practice. They also give specifics on what to do when you realize you are gossiping, the evolutionary, etymological and neural explanations behind why we gossip, compassion as the true sign of integration, a checklist to help spot if gossip is related to inner child or shadow healing, and tons more. They wrap up the episode by answering some questions from the community!

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In This Episode We Talk About:

The energetics behind gossiping and judging others, and how you can use them to spot your own insecurities and blocks!
How they relate directly to inner child and shadow work
Reframing envy and shame into tools for self-improvement
What to do when you realize you are gossiping
The evolutionary, etymological and neural explanations behind why we gossip!
Compassion as the sign of true integration
A checklist to help spot if gossip is related to either inner child or shadow healing
Tips on calling in an emotionally available partner
Questions from the TBM community and feedback from Lacy & Jessica
Core wounds, enmeshment, codependency, people-pleasing!
Open communication with the universe

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- Expanded x Ep. 171 - EXPLAINED Journaling for Manifestation
Expanded x Ep. 189 - How To Spot When Your Inner Child Is Running The Show
Expanded x Ep. 183 - Why Tests Mean Your Manifestation Is Close
Expanded x Ep. 176 - Elise Loehnen - Getting Back into Balance & Finding Expansion
Elise Loehnen etymology of “gossip”
Unblocked Inner Child
Unblocked Shadow
Community Group gossip post
Checklist for Inner Child / Shadow Gossip
- How to Spot Gossip?
  - Is it difficult to see this person or situation neutrally without an emotional reaction?
  - Does this person or situation have anything in common with people you have dealt with in your past?
  - Are you defensive, judgemental, making fun of, placing blame, or triggered?
  - Are you afraid the rug will be pulled out from under you or something will be taken away from you from this person or situation?
  - Are you getting a need met such as being seen, heard, accepted, or soothed by others when you share gossip about this person or subject?
- How to decipher if you need to focus on Inner Child or Shadow based on the gossip?

Is it touching on a dynamic, pattern, or behavior that has come up in the past? If yes, this points to inner child work.
If you feel straight disdain, judgment, or mean girl energy about a specific quality, person or trait? If yes, this points to shadow work.

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