#54 - Vivian Van on People Pleasing, Lonliness, and Self-Love
Nov 22, 2023
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Vivian Van reflects on growing up in a large extended family, the pressure to please others, and the struggle to find her true self. She discusses the importance of recognizing different personality types in group dynamics, embracing diversity, and the journey of self-discovery. Vivian also delves into her career transition and the power of self-acceptance and personal storytelling.
The importance of self-love and acceptance in personal growth and happiness.
Embracing individuality and finding one's voice are crucial in navigating relationships and career choices.
Deep dives
Discovering the importance of self-love and accepting all seasons of life
The podcast episode explores the journey of self-discovery and embracing all seasons of life. The host and guest delve into their personal experiences and growth, discussing the importance of self-love and acceptance. They reflect on childhood experiences, the impact of relationships and breakups, and the role of stability and individuality in finding happiness. The conversation highlights the significance of finding one's voice, navigating career choices, and the power of acceptance and love in personal and interpersonal relationships.
Navigating a journey of self-discovery and finding stability
The podcast episode delves into the guest's journey of self-discovery and the pursuit of stability and happiness. They discuss childhood experiences, including growing up in a chaotic household filled with conflict and the impact it had on their sense of self. The guest shares their process of discovering their own identity, moving out from home, and finding stability through spirituality, therapy, and a supportive community. The conversation highlights the challenges and rewards of exploring one's true self, embracing acceptance, and learning to love and support oneself.
The importance of finding one's authentic voice and embracing individuality
In this podcast episode, the guest shares their journey of self-discovery and finding their authentic voice. They discuss the role of relationships, breakups, and self-reflection in understanding their own desires and aspirations. The conversation also emphasizes the value of prioritizing personal growth and happiness over external validation. The guest highlights the significance of embracing individuality, navigating career choices, and finding the courage to listen to their own inner voice rather than societal expectations. They encourage listeners to be true to themselves and pursue their own path in life.
Embracing self-love and sharing love with others
The podcast episode explores the themes of self-love, acceptance, and sharing love with others. The guest reflects on childhood experiences and the impact they had on their sense of self, emphasizing the importance of feeling seen and loved. They discuss the transformative power of therapy, spirituality, and supportive friendships in their self-discovery journey. The conversation highlights the significance of embracing vulnerability, accepting oneself, and showing compassion towards others. The guest encourages listeners to prioritize their own happiness, find their voice, and foster meaningful connections with those around them.
As promised, Ro interviews Viv on her life story in this week's episode ◡̈ We've shared bits and pieces of our experiences throughout the first 50 episodes, but as we wrap up season 1, we wanted to dedicate a get-to-know-you episode to each host to share a fuller picture of our story!
We hope these episodes will help you understand us more as people, friends, partners, and hosts and discover how our life journeys have brought us together to create Voice Hugs today.
As always, thank you so much for being here 💗 We are so grateful to be on this journey together with you and so so excited for what's to come. ONE MORE EPISODE TO WRAP UP SEASON 1!! Love you all so much!!