The School of Greatness The #1 Method To Defuse Any Argument & Have Hard Conversations That Will Change Your Life w/ Trial Lawyer Jefferson Fisher
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Feb 24, 2025 
Jefferson Fisher, a seasoned trial lawyer and communication expert, shares his insights on transforming conversations in this enlightening discussion. He introduces a three-part framework focusing on control, confidence, and connection for meaningful dialogue. Fisher emphasizes that winning an argument can damage relationships and reveals the art of delivering genuine apologies. Practical strategies like asking 'Tell me more' and establishing clear agreements are highlighted as essential tools for navigating difficult conversations and enhancing personal connections.
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Effective Communication
- Speak with control, confidence, and connection to navigate difficult conversations.
- Remember the person you see isn't always who you're talking to; be curious.
Key Questions for Overreactive Situations
- Ask questions instead of making statements in overreactive situations.
- Try "Sounds like you have a reason for saying that," "Tell me more," and "Are you okay?"
Framing Difficult Conversations
- Use frames to structure difficult conversations.
- Explain the topic, desired outcome, and get buy-in to make discussions productive.
