This listener wrote in about the "self-improvement" he is hoping to obtain via taking a "sexual mastery course." I explore what his wife may be feeling when she reacts poorly to this news, and how "self-improvement" doesn't have much of a place in long-term sexual relationships, because it makes things about one person versus the couple as a whole. I give him some other ways to address and think about his self-esteem and his sexuality while explaining what his wife may not be ready to articulate! Thanks for listening and please subscribe, everyone!