The Liz Moody Podcast How To Know If You Should Have Kid(s) + Debunking Myths About Parenthood With Merle Bombardieri, MSW, LICSW
Mar 29, 2023
Merle Bombardieri, a licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist with over 30 years of experience, dives into the complex decision of parenthood. She offers judgment-free insights on assessing the desire for children, emphasizing the importance of understanding personal readiness and financial considerations. Merle debunks myths surrounding only children versus siblings, discusses fertility doubts, and highlights the emotional impacts of parenthood on relationships. She also encourages exploring meaning in life beyond parenting, providing a holistic view of the decision-making process.
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From No To Yes After Role Models
- Merle initially said no to marriage because she thought she didn't want children and feared disappointing her partner.
- She changed her mind after meeting role models of accomplished mothers and enjoying time with kids at camp.
Only Child As A Viable Choice
- Only children often do well socially and academically and can be a great option for many couples.
- One child often offers more freedom, easier travel, and fits demanding careers better than multiple kids.
Ignore Pronatalist Pressure
- Resist pronatalist pressure and choose the number of children that fits your life and values.
- Don't have more children than you want just to satisfy societal expectations.
