The Gray Area with Sean Illing Nonbinary parenthood
Nov 4, 2021
Krys Malcolm Belc, a nonbinary transmasculine parent and author of "The Natural Mother of the Child," dives into the multifaceted experience of nonbinary parenthood. They discuss the challenges of redefining maternal and paternal roles while navigating societal stereotypes. Krys shares personal stories about breastfeeding, body image after pregnancy, and the intricate dynamics of fatherhood intertwined with gender identity. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community support, legal recognition, and the evolving language surrounding parenting.
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Book's Origin
- Krys Malcolm Belc started writing the book while processing their mother-in-law's illness and their own motherhood.
- They questioned traditional motherhood definitions after aggressively rejecting them.
Family Introduction
- Krys and their partner, Anna, have been together since college and have three children.
- Anna gave birth to Sean and ZZ, while Krys birthed Samson; all share a sperm donor.
Pregnancy Experience
- Krys's pregnancy was emotionally challenging due to societal expectations and body changes.
- They now feel they didn't fully experience it due to focusing on getting through it.
